6 Essentials for Hearing God's Voice (is it His voice or Mine?)
This article was posted on our original blog at Healing from Complex ptsd, October 16th, 2020.
Essential Number One
Essential Number Two
Essential Number Three
Essential Number Four
Essential Number Five
Essential Number Six
This example alone lets you know that the path you take may not always make sense. The experience, however, will bring clarity. Bottom line, we may not always know why God is directing our path a certain direction. It will become clearer throughout the experience.
Have courage, take the one next step, you may be scared out of your wits, but just take the one next step. One next step is all it takes to create a ripple in your life and land you someone different this time next year. I want to encourage you by leaving you with this example. Five years ago I began to listen to an international pastor. I had zero ideas why the Lord was directing my footsteps in this direction, none. I trusted Him that it would all work out. Now, five years down the track I’ve been equipped spiritually in an incredible manner that helps other people. Take the one next step because He will walk with you no matter what the next step is you take.
Blessings and dreams,
Linda
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Developmental Trauma Self-Check
Over the past 12 months, how many and how often have you noticed:
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I work hard to hold it together in public, then crash in private.
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I struggle to name what I feel until it overloads me.
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I say yes to keep the peace, then feel resentful or empty.
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I feel loyal to people who do not treat me well.
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I lose time or feel foggy when stressed.
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I avoid closeness or over-attach quickly, then panic.
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I find it hard to trust my own judgement.
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I feel shame when I try to set boundaries.
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I need external approval to feel steady.
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I push through fatigue instead of pausing.
How to use this:
0–3 items often: you may be using a few survival patterns.
4–7 items often: consider paced support to rebuild safety and choice.
8–10 items often: a trauma-trained professional can help you restore stability and connection.
Brain Impact Self-Check
Over the past 12 months, how often have you noticed:
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My mind jumps to what could go wrong, even in safe moments.
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I find it hard to remember recent details when I am stressed.
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Decisions feel risky, so I delay or avoid them.
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I forget good experiences quickly and dwell on the bad.
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I feel numb or overwhelmed, with little in-between.
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I lose words when emotions rise.
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I misread neutral faces or tones as negative.
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I struggle to notice body signals like hunger, tension or breath.
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I do better when someone I trust is nearby.
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I feel different “versions” of me in different settings.
How to use this:
0–3 often: some protective habits; gentle self-care may help.
4–7 often: consider trauma-trained coaching to build daily brain skills.
8–10 often: a paced, brain-based plan can restore clarity, memory and confidence.
For formal assessment, use recognised measures:
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ACE-IQ or ACE-10 for adversity history (education only on public pages).
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ITQ (International Trauma Questionnaire) for ICD-11 PTSD/Complex PTSD.
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DERS for emotion regulation, DES-II for dissociation, PCL-5 for PTSD symptoms.
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PHQ-9, GAD-7 for mood and anxiety; OSSS-3 for social support.
